Discovering what we have can only be done if we open our hands to see what is inside, it is where everything is at hand, what we need, changing our thoughts, feelings and sensations that they project in our environment like a reflection in a river. . We lose our breath endlessly analyzing our environment, the behavior and reactions of others. Critics with unmatched harshness towards the external, full of complaints and reproaches, believing that assuming responsibility lies outside of us, untouchable, comfortable and oblivious to everything that happens. You are the only person responsible for how you feel because what you think is always more important than what others think. Why do we leave to others the fateful decision that determines our lives?

We are wrong if we believe that to reach the top of the mountain we have to surpass others because the only way to reach it is to surpass ourselves. Life is an Echo... what you send comes back, what you sow is what you reap and what you give is what you receive. What you see in others exists in you, so if you don't like what comes back, what you collect, what you receive, start analyzing and changing what you send, what you sow and what you give. Because whoever wants to do something finds the means and whoever doesn't want to do anything finds the excuses. Life is a constant war between choosing to make others happy but without neglecting your own happiness and this is where we generally find ourselves; careless, irresponsible, inactive and blocked wanting to change what does not concern us, what is external, to the other.

No one can deny that everything is difficult before it is easy and that many life failures are caused by people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. Each person has their story and each one knows how much their wounds weigh and hurt, but we cannot let them think so much that they immobilize us and block our path, so take the reins of your life because there is a pain that hurts you but there is also another. that changes you.

So start today, for your brain washing machine, direct your thoughts, those that fight and push in your brain, negative, complaining, critical and organize them giving them the positive, productive and proactive meaning that you want them to have, measure the words you think, the speeches that you give to yourself and that have a clear message, do not let your brain generate that which does not vibrate with you, that does not bring you closer to where you want to be. Force him to be noble so that he never humiliates, to be humble so that he does not offend, and to be strong so that he does not destroy. It starts from those first glimpses of thoughts, those comments that no one hears but you but that end up leading to what you criticize, that you don't want and that you don't love. Look for coherence because it is the only thing that will make you move forward and be closer to the person you really want to be and, consequently, surrounded by everything you really want. Because it is crazy to always act in the same way and instead expect different results. Don't you think?

Cristina Oroz Bajo