Fathers and mothers, here you have the basis to consciously face the multitude of situations that will be presented to you, a pulse on yourselves that with its errors and successes will mark and determine the life of your children, evolve towards the best version of yourself and learn with them and for them because... " The best legacy of a father to his children is a little of his time every day."

About children… Do you know what it is to be a child?…

Being a child is not worrying about the future, it is playing at trying to be an adult, it is learning everything without knowing that there are mistakes. It is taking life without haste. It is living life and not knowing that it is a moment. It's finding a smile in everything. It is always hiding and never finding yourself. It's thinking that life will always be like this.

About parents... Are you a good example? Do you do everything you say?…

You know how to communicate or you speak loudly, you use no in every sentence or you really trust it is your child and you let him do it, giving rise to the error without punishment or reproach. You use threats to get your child to do things, you force him because things are that way and because you say so. Do you kiss and hug him every day? Do you make mistakes in front of your child and admit it? Do you explain the consequences of his actions or push him away when he has difficulties or doesn't get what he wants? Do you know how to play without directing? Do you play enough with him? your children? Does your child laugh when he plays with you? Do you dance with your children? Do you share music with your children?

About your son…Do you know what your son is like?…

What do you think I would ask for if I could make three wishes? Do you know three virtues and three defects of your son? What does he like to do with you the most? What do you like to do least? What makes you angry, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, what scares you, what embarrasses you? If your child one day became invisible, what do you think you would do?

Cristina Oroz Bajo